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Sister dearest?
Madonna’s gay brother dishes about his famous sis in new book

By DAN RENZI
AUG. 22, 2008
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“I DON’T THINK SHE’S HAPPY ABOUT IT.”

This is the official statement from Christopher Ciccone in reference to his sister, pop superstar Madonna.

Ciccone has written a “tell-all” best-seller, titled “Life With My Sister Madonna.”

When it hit the newsstands, “Life” was promoted as a scandal-soaked muckfest, luring readers with promises of secret details about one of the most famous people in the world. But now that it has been released, readers are discovering a different book entirely.

This is not a tale about a pop-star’s secret life; it’s the story of Ciccone himself, what it’s like living in the shadow of a pop star and how he tries to break away.

“It’s not a bloodbath,” he says. “I think there are a number of people who are disappointed that it’s not. When the book came out, I was getting some very negative e-mail, that I was betraying her and I was about to tear her apart. But all the people who said they didn’t want that to happen were the same people who wanted to read it.”

HORDES OF PEOPLE have purchased the book, but Ciccone isn’t sure if his sister is one of them. They haven’t spoken in years.

“We haven’t spoken about it directly,” he says. “She’s written a number of e-mails to my father. But I don’t know whether she’s read it or not, or what her particular reaction is to it.”

Some lurid details do make it into the book, including claims that Madonna repeatedly agreed to business arrangements with Ciccone and then reneged. He also says she exploited the plights of her family to her own benefit, even outing Ciccone in an interview with the Advocate to win the favor of gay fans.

The book also alleges that Madonna had sex to advance her career, terrorized people who worked for her, staged visits to her mother’s grave, and used her brother as her doormat. Time and again, he picked himself up and went back for more, he says.

CICCONE ALSO TAKES DIRECT AIM at people closest to his sister, including her husband, perennially unemployed movie director Guy Ritchie. There is a strong mutual dislike between the men. Ciccone blames Ritchie for his falling out with Madonna, claiming the new man in her life drove the final wedge between them. 

“He didn’t like our relationship, and for him to get in there, I had to go,” he says. “On top of that, I was gay, and that made him very uncomfortable.

“She’d had many other boyfriends, and a husband, prior to him, and we’d never had a problem,” Ciccone says. “All it meant to me was there was going to be trouble ahead, and this guy was not secure enough to deal with me. Wait until he had to deal with her.”

Ciccone claims Madonna gradually lost her sense of self, and she subjugated herself to his male pride for the sake of their marriage.

“I wasn’t prepared to watch her turn into ‘Mrs. Ritchie,’” he says. “There was a brief moment when she was ‘Mrs. Penn,’” he says, in reference to her famously stormy marriage to Sean Penn. “But that lasted for about five minutes.”

As for his relationship with his sister, Ciccone sees their working relationship as over. But he is “hopeful” they will make amends on some level.

“Madonna really isn’t one of those people who you hang around with as a buddy anyways,” he says. “She doesn’t sit around and shoot the shit and drink a beer with you. It’s not really her style, and it never has been. But a certain civility would be great.”





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BogusMadonna50 on 8/22/08  7:35 AM:
Madonna suffers from frozen feelings. Her life is an expose, a person over-compensating for a loss that was never adequately addressed in her life. Her father should take more personal responsibility in how he contributed to his daughter becoming such a narcissist. Madonna lead Christopher on for years, promising to give him something she can't even give herself - a sense of acceptance and belonging. Madonna was wise to Christopher's vulnerability in being gay. She exploited him in public, and also to her own family. She used her brother, seeing him as just an extension of herself.







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