“Party
bisexual,”
a
new
term
growing
in
popularity
to
describe
men
or
women
who
act
out
bisexual
urges
while
under
the
influence
of
alcohol
or
drugs
is
getting
a
mixed
reception.
The
term
“party
bisexual”
can
describe
those
who
identify
as
straight,
but
demonstrate
an
interest
in
people
of
their
own
sex
when
drunk.
The
term
also
applies
to
those
who
identify
as
gay,
yet
hit
on
the
opposite
sex
while
drunk,
or
to
similarly
unexpected
couplings.
Some
are
calling
the
term
progressive,
a
new
recognition
that
bisexuals
and
bisexual
feelings
are
more
common
than
generally
acknowledged.
But
others,
like
35-year-old
bisexual
Brad
Brownfield,
said
the
term
seems
derogatory
and
stereotypical.
“It
seems
to
stigmatize
the
bisexual
orientation
as
an
irresponsible,
party-based
orientation,”
he
said.
“I
can
assure
people
from
personal
experience
that
being
bisexual
does
not
equal
being
promiscuous,
or
make
one
more
likely
to
party.”
Brownfield,
who
lives
in
Memphis,
Tenn.,
said
the
growing
use
of
“party
bisexual”
could
nonetheless
spur
new
discussion
about
bisexuality.
“Too
many
people
don’t
believe
that
bisexuality
is
genuinely
its
own
orientation,”
he
said.
“If
the
term
‘party
bisexual’
brings
the
subject
of
bisexuality
up
more
often,
then
perhaps
more
people
will
recognize
that
it’s
an
orientation
of
its
own.”
Dr.
Paula
C.
Rodríguez
Rust,
a
member
of
the
International
Academy
of
Sex
Research,
and
author
of
“Bisexuality
in
the
United
States,”
agreed.
Rodríguez
Rust,
a
lesbian,
said
the
new
term
could
advance
society’s
understanding
of
bisexuality.
“Although
this
is
a
way
of
discrediting
[bisexuality],
it’s
also
a
way
to
get
people
to
start
talking
about
it,”
she
said.
“Sometimes
you
have
to
start
talking
about
something
by
using
the
stereotype.”
Rodríguez
Rust
said
the
term,
and
others
like
it,
can
be
used
to
dismiss
unexpected
behaviors.
“It’s
the
‘Gosh,
I
was
drunk
last
night’
syndrome,”
she
said.
“Basically,
it
allows
people
to
be
bisexual
at
a
party,
…
and
then
sort
of
write
that
off.
‘It’s
because
I
was
at
a
party.
It’s
not
because
I’m
bisexual.’”
But
she
said
the
term
also
demonstrates
how
some
people — especially
younger
adults — are
increasingly
recognizing
bisexuals
and
bisexual
feelings.
“It
used
to
be
the
world
was
divided
into
gay
or
straight,
and
anything
that
didn’t
fit
neatly
into
one
of
those
categories
would
be
explained
this
way,”
Rodríguez
Rust
said.
“We’ve
evolved
a
little
bit
in
our
thinking,
and
most
people
now
recognize
that
bisexuality
does
exist.”
The
greater
prevalence
of
bisexuality
was
documented
in
“The
Social
Organization
of
Sexuality,”
a
1994
study
led
by
sociologist
Edward
O.
Laumann.
According
to
that
study,
an
estimated
5.8
percent
of
American
men,
and
3.3
percent
of
American
women,
have
had
sexual
experiences
with
both
men
and
women.
The
study
also
said
that
most
people
who
have
had
same-sex
partners
have
also
had
opposite-sex
partners.
Among
women
who’ve
had
female
partners,
about
91
percent
previously
had
a
male
partner.
Among
men
who’ve
had
male
partners,
about
95
percent
previously
had
a
female
partner.
However,
people
who’ve
had
sexual
experiences
with
men
and
women
don’t
necessarily
consider
themselves
bisexual.
Brownfield
and
others
said
that
some
people
act
out
of
curiosity.
“Just
as
everyone
who
may
have
tried
cigarettes
is
not
a
smoker,”
he
said,
“they
were
curious,
tried
it,
and
moved
on.”
Sheeri
Kritzer
of
the
Bisexual
Resource
Center
in
Boston
said
the
term
simply
reinforces
stereotypes.
“Bisexuals
have
a
bad
rap
because
of
party
bisexuals,”
said
Kritzer,
who
is
bisexual.
“It
would
be
a
good
thing
if
it
helped
eliminate
negative
stereotypes,
but
I
think
we’ve
got
a
long
way
to
go
on
that.”
Rodríguez
Rust
said
people
shouldn’t
feel
compelled
to
use
the
party
bisexual
term,
or
any
similar
term.
“I
don’t
think
we
need
to
think
of
ourselves
as
something
or
the
other,”
she
said.