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spacer State Sen. Bill Stephens (R-Canton) says his proposal to amend the state constitution to ban gay marriage is an effort to defend the 'sanctity of marriage' but his ex-wife says that claim is 'baloney.' The GOP Senate leader said he had the couple's 15-year marriage annulled so he could start fresh with 'the love of his life,' his second wife. (Photo by AP)
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Marriage amendment sponsor defends divorce
Ga. Senate GOP leader defends 'sanctity of marriage' despite annulment of 15-year marriage

By RYAN LEE
JAN. 30, 2004
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State Sen. Bill Stephens, sponsor of a proposed amendment to Georgia's constitution that would ban gay marriage, is in no position to defend the "sanctity of marriage," his former wife told Southern Voice this week.

The woman, who asked that her name not be published, said she and Stephens were married for 15 years and had two sons before the couple split in 1991, in part because she heard persistent allegations that he was having an extramarital affair.

In an interview on Jan. 30, Stephens acknowledged the divorce from his first wife but denied there were any allegations regarding extramarital affairs.

"Unfortunate things happen," said Stephens, a Republican from Canton, Ga., and the Senate's majority leader.

Stephens announced the gay marriage amendment Jan. 21, the day after President Bush vowed to defend "traditional marriage" in his State of the Union address, but Stephens was dropped to fourth on the list of sponsors when it was officially introduced in the state Senate on Jan. 26.

The proposed amendment declares that Georgia "shall recognize as marriage only the union of man and woman. Marriage between persons of the same sex are prohibited in this state."

Many Democratic legislators opposed to the amendment dismissed the proposal as a political ploy to turn out large numbers of conservative voters in the November general election, in which all 236 seats in the Georgia General Assembly will be up for election.

But Stephens' support for the amendment also drew criticism from political opponents.

"If I'm Bill Stephens, I don't believe I would talk about the 'sanctity of marriage' or anything to do with anyone's personal life," said Bobby Khan, interim chair of the Democratic Party of Georgia.

When she heard Stephens' comments about defending the "sanctity of marriage," his ex-wife scoffed.

"It's a bunch of baloney," she said. "The only thing Bill Stephens will do is try to get himself reelected."


Marital matters
The only reason behind the divorce that Stephens' ex-wife was willing to discuss was the "persistent rumor" of an extramarital affair involving Stephens, who was then working as press secretary for then-Gov. Zell Miller (D-Ga.).

Stephens announced his resignation on May 9, 1991. His divorce took place on Aug. 20, 1991, according to records from the Georgia Bureau of Vital Statistics.

Miller, who is completing his tenure as a U.S. senator from Georgia, indicated earlier this week that it was Stephens' decision to resign as press secretary.

Asked by Southern Voice only to confirm Stephens' dates of employment, Miller instructed his staff to issue a statement that went much further, saying, "Bill Stephens was not fired and if you insist on saying he was, it is untrue.

"He left the governor's office on his own free will," Miller said in the statement. "I have known Bill Stephens and his family for most of his life and have always had a very high regard for his ability and character."

Stephens worked as Miller's press secretary during his tenure as lieutenant governor, during his gubernatorial candidacy and during the first five months of Miller's first term as governor.

Miller's office did not respond to repeated interview requests to discuss further Stephens' employment by the former governor.


A religious annulment
In late 1994, Stephens said, he met the woman who would become his second wife, Shannon Walshe Stephens, a reporter for WSB-TV. When the couple decided to marry, Stephens said, his previous marriage presented religious difficulties for Walshe, who is Catholic.

Stephens said he obtained an annulment "out of respect for the love of my life," by honoring her religion and presenting himself to her with a clean slate.

Stephens and his first wife were legally divorced in 1991, and the Catholic Church granted a religious annulment in 1996, clearing the way for him to remarry, Stephens said.

Stephens' proposed amendment is not the first time a prominent Georgia politician has attacked gay relationships despite his own marital difficulties.

While a member of Congress, Republican Bob Barr was the primary sponsor of the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act, a federal law banning gay marriage, despite having been married three times.

As Georgia attorney general from 1981 to 1997, Michael Bowers defended the state's sodomy law to the U.S. Supreme Court, winning a 1986 ruling that found no "fundamental right" to homosexual sex. Bowers also won a protracted legal battle after firing lesbian attorney Robin Shahar in 1991 after learning of her planned religious commitment ceremony with her female partner.

But in 1997, Bowers — then a candidate for governor in the Republican primary — acknowledged a long-term extramarital affair, in violation of Georgia laws ...

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